February Daily Vibes | Loving Relationships Day 12


Day 12 Law of Attraction Centering Thought

Others are always doing their job of training me to be a powerful creator.

If you remember that you are a powerful creator who wanted to experience contrast in order to help you decide the things that you now want, it will help you to feel more patient about others’ not remembering.  ~  Abraham

He who wishes to secure the good of others has already secured his own. ~  Confucius

Seek YOU

From the teachings of Jesus we get the guidance to seek first the kingdom of heaven within and all else will be given. In Attraction Based Consciousness we relate that kingdom within to the love we are. Thus being the love we are becomes our primary purpose. Seek clear alignment between you and YOU, your physical and nonphysical perspectives and all you desire will be attracted.

With clear alignment as our purpose we designate all those in your life as PERSONAL TRAINERS. They constantly assist you to be the love you are. The lovable ones make it easy to be the love we are. It is the not so easy to love ones who help us to “gain control of your own experience” and love unconditionally. Even the loveable ones can do less than lovable things at times. So, opportunities to practice being love abound.

Alignment GPS

Key is the understanding that our feelings actually are not caused by what others are doing. They are caused by our perspective of what they are doing. It is neither the good feeling you find when you observe wanted behavior, nor the bad feeling you find when you observe unwanted behavior, that is actually the reason that you feel good or bad. The way you feel is only ever about your clear alignment or misalignment between the Voice in your head and your Inner Being.

Our emotions are part of our internal guidance system, our Alignment GPS. This understanding gives us complete empowerment and freedom. This understanding turns all others into Personal Trainers of clear alignment.

Falling in love

Falling in love is actually being the love we are. We meet someone who has enough characteristics, physical, mental or emotional, that we can easily focus on to bring us into clear alignment. However, the person we have fallen in love with is complex and eventually we see some of their characteristics that are not so lovable to us. Now they have become in-house, in your face, Personal Trainers on your journey to mastering the energies of love.

It is not about you anyway. When you see others as Personal Trainers, if they lash out at you in anger, you realize their battle is not with you but with themselves. Your job is to not take their behavior personally but be the love that you are.

Sometimes you think it is important what others think of you and you will work to gain their approval. However, there really is little that you can do to keep their approval coming for it is never about you, but about them. If you will release all concern about how others feel about you, and focus only upon how you feel about them, you will unearth your core understanding of who-you-really-are. They will have done their job of training you to be the love you are.

Week Two Processes:

  • Meditate: In your daily fifteen minute meditation you might try silently saying “I am” on the inhale and “love” on the exhale.
  • Appreciation Journal: Each day list at least three things you appreciate about someone that is easy to appreciate. This assists you to feel good. Then list at least three things you appreciate about someone not so easy to appreciate. Even if you have to go to the far ends of the galaxy, find something that rings true to appreciate.
  • What Do You Want? Consider each encounter with others throughout the day as a training session. You are training in the fine art of unconditional love. If the conversation is uplifting, you’ve got it easy. If the other is bent on talking about a problem, to help yourself stay or get back to clear alignment ask, “What is it that you want to happen?” You might say, “It is clear what you don’t want. What is the solution, what do you want to happen? Or articulate what you see as a possible solution. “That certainly clarifies what you don’t want. It sounds like you want…….”